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Visit our sister subreddit /r/AmItheButtface/ for posts about fiction or relationships, and basically anything that we don't allow here! /r/AmItheCloaca for posts from animals and /r/AmItheGrasshole for all your lawncare conflicts! If your top level comment has the highest number of upvotes in a thread, you will get a flair point. This flair is determined by the subscribers who have both rendered judgment and voted on which judgment is best. Were you the asshole in that situation or not? Post should reflect real situations, and abide by the rules below.Īfter 18 hours, your post will be given a flair representing the final judgment on your matter. This is the sub to lay out your actions and conflicts and get impartial judgment rendered against you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in a real-world argument that's been bothering you.

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